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Testimonial

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I saw Jennifer’s website through a twitter post of another disciplinarian lady that I went to a couple of times before. Jennifer’s website read very well: it separated spanking from sex, which is appealing to me. Although I definitely find spanking sexually exciting at some level, it is most appealing to me if it’s real discipline, and not connected to sexual context, from the spanker’s point of view.

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About me: I am a 57 year old professional man in the Boston area. I have always been fascinated with spanking, as long as I can remember. I was spanked by my mother as a child, but not very often. I don't know if that was the cause of my interest: My siblings were also spanked but I'm pretty sure they have no interest in spanking whatsoever. In any case, for whatever reason, I have always been fascinated with spanking. I got married young — in my 20s — and I told my wife then of my fascination with spanking. She seemed okay with it, but as time went on, it became clear that she didn’t understand or accept the depth of my interest. We eventually split up, and I got remarried about 15 years ago to a woman who embraced my spanking interest, and all of me. Over the years, she has sometimes spanked me. That has always been very good, but because we are husband-and-wife and equal partners, the spanking cannot be a discipline situation for us. So with my wife’s blessing, I have looked for the past few years to find someone who understands spanking as discipline. I have seen in a couple of professionals before Jennifer, and each was good in their own way. But Jennifer is an entirely different category in my opinion. Jennifer understands that for someone like me, although spanking is exciting, it can also be true discipline.

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After reading Jennifer’s website, I wrote to her, in search of a therapist and disciplinarian. Although I am successful at work and happy at home, I have a lot of stress in my life. Furthermore, I have been taking anti-anxiety medication for many years, at a low dose. I started taking these drugs about 20 years ago, during my divorce. Although it did me good then, and at other later points in my life, I don’t think I should be taking them now: my life is good. But I can’t seem to quit, because frankly, these drugs are very addictive. I decided that I would ask Jennifer to help me quit these drugs. I don’t know of another way to do this, other than just do it myself. I had considered the idea of going to a regular therapist about this problem, but such a person would have no recourse in my life to stop me from taking the medication. That would effectively be just me doing it myself. So I thought I would try Jennifer’s spank therapy as a novel alternative. (Yes, I realize that this is an unusual approach. She technically has no hold on me either, but importantly, she is easy to relate to, and to open up to. So, so far, I don’t feel the need to lie to her.)

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I met with Jennifer a few weeks ago, in an initial 2 hour appointment. She was kind, open, and smart, and easy to talk to: I felt like I could open up with her. So I told her my issues, as best as I could verbalize them, and she agreed to try to help me. We talked for a long time that day, and eventually, she cut off the discussion, and said we needed to get to the discipline. She told me that she thought that she understood my needs, and that she would discipline me the way that she does (which never has any sexual overtones). Because of my interest in spanking, I have been spanked by many people over the years, in either a relationship context or in a professional context, by about 10 people total. I thought that my wife and ex-partners spanked me hard, because that’s what they said. And I was told that I have a high tolerance by several people, including professionals. But Jennifer was much tougher than anyone I had been spanked by before. As she advertises, it is true discipline. She starts with her bare hand, and that is the toughest bare hand I have ever faced. She had me bruising in a few minutes. Then she proceeded to use several implements, which she used with varying force, sometimes very hard. It was a tough time, but I managed to get through it, and I was very bruised at the end, bruising which lasted for more than 10 days. She found my weak spots and went at them hard. As she advertises, there is no safe word. She wants this to hurt, otherwise it’s not discipline.

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It’s been a few weeks now since our first meeting, and I cautiously look forward to the next. I think Jennifer may be the kind of therapist that I have been looking for. She is very smart, and she has good, non-judgmental advice — tailored to me — about how to proceed in life, and be happy. This is a rare combination. I have never encountered anyone like her.

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I think I am doing well: this has given me the motivation to cut off my anti-anxiety medication: I haven’t had a single pill since I saw her. Of course, I realize that this may be a long struggle, and that this is only the beginning, but I welcome talking to someone about trying to quit, and feeling like I can accomplish this, with some help. I will try to meet with Jennifer monthly at first, and then bi-monthly over time.

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Boston 2019

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Testimonial – After Five Sessions

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My name is Robert.  Jennifer is my Life Coach and Disciplinarian.  In early January 2019, I attended my first session with Jennifer, and I began a life-changing journey.  I recently completed my fifth session, and in four short months, my progress and results thus far are amazing and nearly miraculous.  Through a combination of meaningful conversation, positive influenced coaching, and inspired discipline – spanking -, Jennifer is instilling in me a strong motivational determination to actually fully commit to unconditionally working to improve my body, my mind, and my life.

In four short months: I lost 60 pounds; I significantly changed my eating habits to a healthy diet; I exercise nearly every day; my outlook on life is positive; I am kinder and less conflicted, and my spiritual wellbeing is good, idealistic, and again growing.

Jennifer is a professional and an amazing person. She is also a normal person. Obviously, Seeing a Life Coach and Disciplinarian for a spanking is not for everyone.  It works for some of us.  It works because there is a mutual respect between Jennifer and her clients, which is the only way it can work, at least in my mind.  I am happy I chose to see Miss Jennifer and I willingly accept my spankings.  I know it is what I need and it is working.  My life is more where I want my life to be.  I am not sure how to explain and I am not sure I understand.  Conversely, Jennifer also helped me realize that I do not need to question why or understand about spanking; I can accept what works and is good for me.  I am at peace with where spanking is in my life.

Because of my successes, and because of my positive experience with spanking, I want to share some of my story, and confide wanting and receiving real spankings is ok, and perhaps beneficial.

I am basically a normal guy and my life is (and was) good.  I am upper middle aged.  I have a college degree and a good job.  I am active, I like sports, I enjoy music and concerts, I like to travel and see new places, I enjoy the outdoors, and I have an amazing number of good close friends.  I was married for 18 years, until my wife passed away a little over two years ago.   

Additionally, I have had a lifelong fascination with spanking.  I have no idea why.  For long as I can remember, I have thought about spanking, and I can remember I often wanted, or maybe felt I needed, for some unknown reasons, to receive a real spanking.  My yearning was not an obsession, more a somewhat obscure feeling in the inner parts of my mind.  Sometimes I would go months or years without thinking about spankings, and other times I would think about spankings daily.

While the desire to receive a spanking was often powerful, as both a child and as an adult, I was also terrified of actually getting a real spanking.

For the record, when I was a child, I received several mild ‘half’ spankings - a half dozen slaps on my butt, an occasional half dozen smacks with a wooden spoon, always standing and over clothes. Even though the spankings only hurt a little, I did not like them.  However, and strangely, I knew I was not getting the real bare spankings I heard about, and with confused emotions thought, I should be getting.

As an adult my spanking curiosity and desire continued.  My spanking desire was not a sexual desire, and was not a domination desire; only spanking.  Through the years, I occasionally looked at spanking magazines, read spanking stories, and watched spanking videos; all without satisfaction.

For years, I semi-searched for someone to spank me – to give me a real spanking.  I did not want a dominatrix, or escort, or other type of professional.  I wanted a real person.  Unfortunately, my wife could not provide that experience, and that was ok, I did not want her to either.   Occasionally, I found and considered various disciplinarians, several who seemed real and what I was looking for.  Yet, while I seriously considered contacting these people, I never pursued the opportunities.  They were just not right for what I thought I wanted.   

Then in the fall of 2018, I unexpectedly discovered the jenniferspanks website.  I was immediately enthralled and captivated.  Within a few hours, I read everything readily available on the website, and then joined the site to read the forums and other information.  Miss Jennifer seemed like exactly what I was needing and searching for.  What was I going to do?

I spent two days contemplating.  Finally, I decided if I was ever going to do anything about my spanking desires: now was the time - here was my opportunity.

Fast-forwarding through the anxiety of filling out the application - honestly answering every question, and the trepidation of waiting and hoping for approval: I was overwhelmed with a sea of emotions when Jennifer approved my application.

Jennifer is a consummate professional, and extremely talented at what she does.  Jennifer is very easy to talk with, both on the phone and in person.  She is cheery with a good sense of humor, and she excels at easing your anxiety, and allowing you to become comfortable talking.  During our initial phone conversation, Jennifer broke my tension when she said, (paraphrasing) “Driving hours to see someone who is going to spank your bottom is crazy; I know, right.” After a laugh, we talked about how seeing someone for a spanking is not crazy and we talked about my upcoming session.  Of the various spanking service options, I chose Life Coaching and Discipline.  Primarily because I was hesitant of a punishment or cathartic spanking being my first real spanking, and I figured, it would be nice to maybe lose a few pounds.

Surprisingly, on the day of my session, I was not nervous and did not feel any anxiety – well until I knocked on the door.  Jennifer welcomed me and quickly made me feel at ease.

We began talking, and within moments, I knew I made the correct decision to apply for and attend my first session.  We talked about many topics ranging from lighthearted to serious to various places in-between.  I quickly learned Jennifer is genuine, sincere, and honest.  I truly felt Jennifer cared about what I said, and more importantly, I felt she truly cared about me. (Nearly all of Jennifer’s people offer similar reflections).  Almost immediately, I explicitly trusted Jennifer and knew I could talk openly and honestly.  Correspondingly, and as my new Professional Life Coach, Jennifer appropriately offered comments, advice, and direction, along with establishing goals, plans, and expectations.  Sometimes she delivered her guidance with a smile and a laugh, sometimes logically and pervasive, and sometimes firm and direct.

An hour plus flew by, and suddenly: it was time.  The music started and my spanking started soon after.  Wow, an astonishing experience.  While not a fan of the pain, the spanking freed my brain of bad vibes and bad energy.  During the spanking, my brain focused on nothing but the spanking, staying in position, and accepting what was happening.  When the spanking was over, I was breathing heavy, and I felt both emotionally drained and emotionally revived.  I had a new sense of motivation.

I do not know how I was spanked or what implements I may have been spanked with.  I knew, and I know now, my first spanking was a novice type ‘let’s get to know you’ spanking.  Although it was a good one, and Jennifer said I did good.  When I got home and looked, my bottom was splotchy red and bruised, looking like two playground worn basketballs.

Immediately after leaving my session, and reflecting on the experience during my long drive home, l realized how fortunate I was to meet and spend a session with Jennifer, a truly amazing, unique, and beautiful person. To be honest, my original intention was to have one or two sessions, experience a real spanking or two, say thank you, and move on.  However, after my first session, I knew I had a unique opportunity to start a journey improving my body, my mind, and my life; I could not let the opportunity pass.  I decided I wanted to change my life and I was going to commit to the program.  I wanted a second session opportunity, and I was confident I wanted to become a regular client of Miss Jennifer’s Life Coaching and Disciplinary services.

I quickly requested a second session, and I proceeded to doing everything Jennifer coached me to do.  I ate healthy, I did not eat what I was told not to eat (with an exception or two), I exercised, and I lost over 15 pounds.

I was excited for my second session, and yes, I was again nervous.  The second session was better than the first.  We talked about how I did, and established new goals and expectations, and we talked about a variety of other important topics.  My second spanking was twice as intense as my first spanking and exactly what I needed- wow.  Jennifer also gave me a nice short barrage of something stingy on my sweet spots, and l informed me it would be worse if I was bad.   

I again quickly scheduled my next session, my third.  I continued with my full commitment to improving my life.  I continued eating healthy, not eating restricted food, exercising, and I lost another 15 pounds – down 30 pounds in two months.  I also worked on other things we discussed like some procrastination issues.

My third session was again better than the first two.  Jennifer was very happy I was being good and she added to my goals and expectations.  We also extended my third session a little longer to help me with an important issue I needed to discuss.  The spanking intensity again increased a couple notches – wow – what did I get myself into.  I am now realizing this Life Coaching and Discipline Spanking is working for me.

I scheduled my fourth session and continued working to change my life.  I was good and I lost another 15 pounds – down 45 pounds in three months.  Our conversations are becoming more rewarding as we know each other better and become more comfortable talking.  Jennifer is happy and proud of my progress.  I am very happy.  As my reward (? – my guess), Jennifer decides to like quadruple the intensity of my fourth session spanking.  About halfway through the spanking, Jennifer laughs, “A little harder this time, isn’t it?  You didn’t expect me to spank lightly every time did you?” Wow, intensity I never expected or knew.  I was very thankful for the extra motivation.

My fifth session was the best yet.  I lost another 15 pounds and I am down 60 pounds in four months.  This time, Jennifer raises the intensity of my spanking 10 times and introduces me to some of her evil friends.  I now know about these friends.  WOW!  I am now ultra-motivated to succeed.

I cannot thank Jennifer enough for the changes I have made in my life.  Her combination of Life Coaching, Discipline, and unique motivational skills has transformed my life for the better.  I am very happy.  I would not have changed my life to this extent if not for her.  With each session, Jennifer has provided exactly what I needed; I am very thankful. 

“In everyone's life, at some time, our inner fire goes out. It is then burst into flame by an encounter with another human being. We should all be thankful for those people who rekindle the inner spirit.” -Albert Schweitzer, philosopher, physician, musician, Nobel laureate.

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Robert Columbus 2019

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A different Testimonial

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I recently had my third session with Jennifer and what I feared all along would happen, occurred, except with her amazing ability to understand and adapt she turned it from a disaster ( in my mind) to an extremely positive experience. To summarize, I have serious medical problems, but I also really want/need what Jennifer does to help me continue the biopsies, chemo, willpower it takes to fight this ( my third go around), unfortunately sometimes the mind spirit wants what the flesh is not currently able to withstand. Very shortly after progressing from her hand spanking to some wooden implement ( I never look being a wimp) I started to feel very poorly and close to passing out. No, it wasn’t just me wimping out from a sore bottom but I genuinely had to stop now. She rapidly sensed that something was different and temporarily stopped. I was extremely distraught that, once again my wretched body was going to destroy this positive experience. She didn’t let that happen, she calmed me down told me it was no big deal, that I was still going to get a spanking and proceeded. And she did spank me for a long time, quite lightly, but it was a remarkably positive experience that I equate with the loving aspects of the spankings my mom gave me that I so crave. She didnt let me quit, she didn’t have me fail as I’m sure the majority of people would and turned it into a positive loving learning experience. Thank you very much from the bottom of my heart. I know I won’t get off so easily in future but I can rest assured you will have my best interests in your care. That is a trust I never thought possible to give to another person other than my wife and my mom, so again, thank you. And yes I will get on with the anthology, take the vitamins or at least try them, and always always keep trying. Thank you again, Jennifer.

Caneable1 Northern Virginia 2019

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Testimonial-Extraordinary Disciplinarian

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Intelligent, sensitive, amiable, seasoned and capable, and possessing a little gleam of sadism,* Jennifer is everything I want in a disciplinarian. She's a delightful woman who takes the time to understand you and do things right. My recent session with her was the most intensive spanking I've ever gotten.

We started off with her warm-up, and even her hand spankings can be punishing. Then we got to the serious stuff, with a variety of paddles, canes/sticks, and of course, Black Sammie (a sjambok I believe). Sammie and the big stick (I don't actually know what Jennifer calls it) were the ones that basically broke me down. One of the things that adds to the session is her "rollercoaster" approach. It keeps things a little less predictable (the more typical approach is to gradually progress to more severity).

It's the third day after my session and my red marks are now giving way to purple and black, but I thought I would include a shot of Jennifer's artwork from the next day. Unlike a painting, her artwork evolves from day to day. And the sensations I continue to feel days after are awesome.

A session to remember.

* That little sadistic streak is a real plus to someone who really craves the sensation of a good, serious spanking.

Leonard Los Angeles 2019

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Testimonial

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If you are reading this testimonial, and you have had the pleasure of seeing Miss Jen in the past, I hope you find my account to be an exhilarating read and relatable to your own experiences. However, if you are still considering seeing Jennifer for any of the many types of sessions that she offers, I am going to do everything in my power to convince you to finally take the plunge and do it! Although there are likely a lot of nerves in play for you (just like there were for the majority of us), do yourself a favor and see her if you can. You won't be disappointed if you fill out the application truthfully.

Now that that's out of the way, let me give a little background on my particular situation. I had seen Jen once about four years prior to my most recent session (of which I am still feeling the effects). I had every intention of seeing her again after my first spanking, but I was going through a number of life changes all at once and my schedule just didn't allow it. Fast forward to 2019, and I knew that it was time for another spanking from the infamous Miss Jen. Because of the time span, Jen's rules (trust me, you want to follow them ALWAYS) required me to fill out a new application. I actually enjoyed seeing how my answers changed from my first application to my most recent one, and I put some serious thought into the new app because I was determined to see her again if she would allow it. To my pleasant surprise, I was approved for a second session within just a few days. To make a long story short, we quickly agreed on a day and time. I had less than a week to prepare for my life coach / counseling / therapeutic spanking session with Jen. I felt nervous, scared, anxious, thrilled, excited, embarrassed, and euphoric all at once. Anyone who has gotten this far in the process knows what I mean. Your heart skips a beat, you feel dizzy, you sweat nervously, along with who knows how many other symptoms. It was almost time.

All week long, I thought about my upcoming appointment. I made a point of feeling my buns as they were, because I knew that after my spanking they would feel chapped and swollen. I would look at the clock and calculate how many hours until my appointment started, how many hours until my bottom was bared, how many hours until my butt would be red... I couldn't concentrate on anything else very well, but I tried my hardest to get through the week. As we inched closer to my punishment, I made sure I looked and felt my best. I shaved my body, tanned, and even fasted to ensure the best possible experience for both of us. After all of the preparation, the day finally came.

I drove to the hotel, and followed her instructions for meeting her. I actually arrived early and took the time to go for a short walk outside the hotel to gather my thoughts and remember all of the reasons I was coming to see her again. It was a nice day outside, which made it easier for me to accept my poor butt's upcoming fate. At five minutes before my session, it was time to call Jen... She truly is a sweet person, and you can just tell when you speak to her on the phone. I took the elevator up the her floor, knocked, she opened the door, and greeted me with a huge smile on her face. It had been so long and I was shaking, but I had flashbacks to my first time and started to calm down a little bit.

Jen instructed me to sit on the couch while she sat on a chair, and we talked for a VERY LONG TIME. I really needed that. I won't get into all of the details as to why I was seeing her, but I will say that it was nice to share those private and personal feelings with someone who genuinely wanted to help me. I had quite a few issues to address with her, as I am not one to usually ask other people for help. But, I just trust her for some reason. If you ever talk to her, you will see what I mean. She reminded me of how good I had it, encouraged me to smile and be more confident, told me I was handsome, and really made me feel like a million bucks with all of her kind words and suggestions. I think we actually lost track of time, which was incredibly nerve racking for me. I had no idea how long she was going to coach and counsel me before the inevitable occurred. I loved it and hated it at the same time, because I was so anxious to go over her lap again after so many years. However, I also knew that her spanking was going to hurt, and part of me hoped she would forget all about it. There were at least ten separate times during our conversation where I was expecting Jen to segue into the spanking part of our session, which really kept me on my toes. Until it was finally time. I wanted to faint.

Jen coached and lectured me for a bit, but realized that she needed to leave a lasting impression on my tush. She small talked with me to put me at ease while she turned on the tv and cranked up the volume. She led me to the bedroom of the suite, and closed the door. Then came the music, which means that it's time for her to get down to business. GULP. She sat down on the edge of the bed, and pointed to her lap with a grim look on her face. She pulled my pants down right away, and saw that I was wearing a pair of shorts under them (extra cushion). She had me stand up and remove my pants, my shorts, and my sweatshirt, and I returned over knees in a shirt and underwear with my head on a pillow (which I would need desperately later). Fortunately, there was a mirror in front of us, so I got to see her "perform" on my ample backside. Jen immediately pulled down my tight black underwear, and got right to work. I am about a foot and a half taller than Jen, but I felt like a disobedient child while she warmed me up with her hand. I will never get the visual of her spanking me OTK out of my mind. She looked like a mad Asian mom, spanking her son because she wanted the best out of him and just wasn't seeing it. She really went to town and although it stung, it was a good hurt. The longer she went, the more numb my butt felt. Ironically, the first song in the mix was "Rude" by MAGIC! which made me laugh because the lyrics were so fitting from my perspective ("Why you gotta be so rude?"). Anyway, Jen spanked and spanked until it was time for the next implement, a handheld brush of some sort. OW. Her hands packs a punch, but I felt a significant increase in intensity. I tried to watch as much as I could (I am vain and like to see the action), but the pain started setting in for me. I hid in the pillow and kicked my legs a little, but I was sure to stay in position. I didn't want to earn extra swats, and I wanted Jen to be proud of my resolve. She is the type of lady you don't want to disappoint. I am not sure how long she spanked me with the brush, but my she blistered my fanny like it was her job (because it is). Then she pulled out a wicked wooden spoon. It was thick, dark, and evil. I was glad she kept pushing me, and I welcomed the lighter taps that she threw in there as well, but she would come back stronger with five or six rapid fire smacks in one spot. I started whimpering and yelping ever so quietly, I just couldn't help it. But, I remained calm because I knew she knew what was best for me. Jen spread my cheeks to get the inner parts of my bottom as well as the lower part right above the sit spot. I have a big butt from lifting weights, so she made sure my entire booty felt her presence. When "Believer" by Imagine Dragons started to play, I really started to wonder if she meant to play these songs as some kind of cruel joke. She made me a believer, alright! OUCH!

The next stage of my spanking was even more difficult. Jen got up and demanded that I lay face down on the bed. There were no pillows under my hips, just my bare tookus on display for her enjoyment. She whipped out this butt beater/carpet beater deal of hers, and proceeded to paint my back porch red. This weapon was more stingy than the previous thuddy ones, and it definitely hurt quite a bit. I could almost feel her smiling as she watched my buns jiggle while I kicked my legs to distract myself from the torture. She would occasionally put her finger on my lower back or move me a few inches, but I was a good boy and didn't squirm around all that much. I promised myself that I would take her spanking to the best of my ability. The next part of the spanking was definitely the most extreme. I was lucky enough to earn a few grabs and rubs, but little did I know that it was just for her to assess the damage before she moved onto one of the most vicious paddles my backseat has ever felt. I was surprised when Jen pulled my underwear back over my plump, red buns. Then, she tapped my bottom with a thin, long paddle a few times. I braced myself for the impact, and that thing killed. But that was nothing, because she lit me up a bunch more times in succession. I jolted repeatedly as the swats came raining down on my behind, but again, stayed put for her on the bed with my cheeks upturned and in position. I think she saw I was trying so hard to be good, so the intervals between swats increased, but so did the speed and power of said swats. I didn't cry, but my eyes did water as I yelled into the pillow. I thought it was cute that Jen pulled down my undies a few times to check on my rump. She wanted me to learn my lesson, but she doesn't like blood and I don't either. I felt like a naughty little boy getting a spanking from a concerned caretaker, because her touch was so gentle compared to all of the spanking I had received by this point. She wanted to hurt me, but not injure me. This part was really special for me, and I don't even think she was aware. I felt truly cared for at that moment. After several more paddlings, she commanded me to face the other way on the bad so that she could "even me out." UGH! More paddling, more jolting, more near crying, literally the worst and the best at the same time. I was kicking my legs like a swimmer, not enough for her to miss her target, but enough for me to distract myself. She finally pulled out the last toy of hers, but I didn't see what it was. She gave me a bunch of light taps on either cheek as I tried to get a grip. I was breathing really hard at this point. I kept expecting her to start whacking me again after she caught me off guard. She kept tapping though, and it was extremely comforting. I LOVED this because at any moment, she could have tore me up good. But she didn't. She love tapped me for what seemed like five minutes or so, and I loved every second of it. I had proven to her that I was willing to accept my spanking, and this cemented our trust even more, at least to me. She took a few pictures, and showed me and said "It came out GREAT!" My vision wasn't cooperating because of the water in my eyes, but I saw at least four or five different colors on my already tan (now purple, pink, red, white, blue, etc.) bottom. I rubbed my eyes, asked her how I did, and she said "AWESOME." My heart sank, because this lady spanks people across the globe, and I somehow got what I considered to be a compliment after so many years.

We said our goodbyes, and we both agreed that additional sessions would be in order. I can't explain it to people who haven't been pushed to their spanking limit, but you get a indescribable feeling at the end. I could tell my attitude had been adjusted for the better, and I had so many memories and visuals to think about, ones I will remember forever. It still hurts to sit down, but the pain is fading and the bruises and chapping are starting to disappear. This makes me more sad than anything, but I know it won't be the last time. : )

You truly get what you pay for in this life. Jen is pretty direct about what she offers. Some of us need discipline or punishment. Some of us loved to be spanked. Some of us hate it, but need it because nothing else works. Some of us need all of the above or something different entirely. I have been spanked by quite a few other "professionals" in my day, but no one has even come close to Miss Jen's expertise and care. She is an amazing human being. If this testimonial doesn't convince you to finally see her, nothing will, and you probably never really wanted to see her in the first place. In all seriousness, we are very lucky to have her. Respect her, listen to her, and for goodness sakes, don't let her petite frame and tiny hands fool you - she packs a mean wallop!

- BlisteredBubbleButtBadBoy - Chicago - 2019

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Let me start of with a little bit about me and why I decided to see Jennifer. I am a college educated professional woman. I have a descent job and kids. I am also involved in my community and stuff like that. I mention this because when I was going through this process all the way up till I had my session with Jen I kept trying to talk myself out of it. Because I was “normal” and I didn’t need to do this. But I knew that I needed to do something to get my life back on track. And I think I made the best desicion.

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Any way, About a month ago I was feeling lost and I sort of felt like my life was getting out of control. I am a very in control type of person so this was weighing on me. So I did a random google search for “spanking therapy” I honestly didn’t even know it was a thing. The first thing I saw was a buzzfeed video. I watched it and I was like that’s nothing I can do that. Then I looked to find someone who does this type of stuff professionally. I saw a lot of crazy/sex stuff and I absolutely did not want that. There was nothing sexual in what I was looking for. That’s when I saw Jen’s site. I spent a long time looking at it and reading everything. I learned really quick that the buzzfeed video wasn’t a realistic picture of spanking therapy or what Jen did.

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After going back and forth for a few days I clicked the link the join the site, so I could read the forum. With in like a day I got an email from Jen welcoming me to the site and asking what I was looking for. I was looking for life coaching with discipline. I needed to be held accountable. You could tell by her emails she was super sweet and nice. So recommended that I ask questions on the forum. Which I did. Everyone was really nice and answered my questions. The one thing that stood out to me was that for the people on the forum this wasn’t really about spanking it was about changing your life and fixing things you have always wanted too.  They had a super positive experience with this and it helped them and I wanted that too.

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So, I filled out the application. Within 48 hours I heard back and Jen accepted my application and she wanted to see me in less than 2 weeks! I pretty much knew in my heart that I was going to do this but it did take me a couple of days to process things and set up my appointment. Then came the phone call. I was super nervous all day about it. But pretty much as soon as I heard her voice and we started talking I immediately relaxed. It’s really hard to explain she has this way of making you feel at ease, even on the phone.

A week after the call I had my session. Honestly I was so torn with everything I was about to do. I sort of felt like I was going crazy. Even though I read everything on the site and listened to podcasts a little part of me was nervous and was wondering if what I was doing was safe, mentally and physically.

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All those feeling pretty much instantly went away when I met her.  She has a very welcoming personality. She make you feel very comfortable about what you are about to do and what’s going to happen. She is so professional about everything that I never really felt awkward. She made me feel very safe. It’s hard to explain but I just trusted her and trusted that she knew better than me and that she could help me.

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I have only had one session but I already feel like I have a different outlook on things. I am positive about what I need to do and I feel like I am gaining control back.  This was 100% a positive experience for me and I look forward to my next session.

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Tiffany Boston 2019

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Never in my life did I ever think I would be where I am today for several reasons. Things in my life needed to change and I need some kind of accountability or discipline to bring about the changes. I went online and looked for something that would give me the necessary discipline, accountability, or serve as a major deterrent in order to help me change. That’s when I discovered Miss Jen.

I had finally reached the point in my life where I needed to take extreme action because nothing else was working. I was headed down a very self-destructive path and something had to change. As I scoured Miss Jen’s website, reading testimonial after testimonial, looking over the lengthy application, and practically without hesitation, I completed and submitted my application. I did it with haste because I did not want to give myself time to back out because seeking this kind of help was so uncharacteristic of me.

When Miss Jen accepted my application, things got real. I tried to talk myself out of it... I made promises to myself to avoid making it happen, and yet, the time came for me to call her. Talking to Jen was calming and nerve racking all at the same time. I was asking for someone to hold me accountable and she made sure I knew she would be in control. I think that was the most terrifying realization for me because I need to be in control.

The time came for my session. I was filled with fear and trepidation. There was not a single part of me that wanted to go through with seeing Miss Jen. I spent my whole life trying to avoid be beat and yet here I was, asking someone to help me change my life and hold be accountable. Calling Miss Jen from the hotel lobby was and still is one of the most dreaded things ever... well okay, not the most dreaded but I got all nervous. I don’t know why I walked so blindly into meeting a stranger in their hotel room but I did. Maybe it was because of reading every single one of the testimonials, but I never questioned my safety because I felt like I kind of knew Miss Jen already. Anyways, she answered the door and was so sweet and nice and I instantly felt completely comfortable, well as comfortable as one could knowing they would be receiving a real spanking.

We talked and as we did, I really felt that she cared. She truly, genuinely cared. I don’t often run into real people, but from the moment I first met Miss Jen, I felt like she cared and that I could blindly trust her. I even made the comment, “You’re like a real friend. You really care!” We talked for awhile and then she said it was time. I so did not want it to be time. I think I even looked at my watch and said, “But my time is up.” I even said, “This was a great session, why ruin such a great thing?” Yeah, none of it got me out of the spanking part of the session.

Now I am totally not a fan of being spanked and have spent every session since, trying to avoid it, I have to say, Miss Jen totally knows what she is doing. She knows exactly what she is doing and is extremely effective. There were and have been several times were I want to get up and be done and yet, I don’t, not that I think she would let me. It’s like she knows when I need to feel her actual presence, or maybe because she knows I want to be done, she gently puts she hand on the arch of my back and for some insane reason, it keeps me there. Why?!?!? I don’t know.

Now I have had eight sessions with Miss Jen and my life is completely different and way better than when it was 8 months ago. I am a much more healthy me. I was on 8 medications when I started seeing Miss Jen, and now I am only on one. She knows what I can handle and what I can’t, and she has broken things down into challenging yet manageable goals or tasks. Spanking still has yet to grow on me and I still vehemently hate it, but it really has been effective. I will still ask each time when she says it’s time for the spanking part, “Do we really have to do this? Why ruin it?” Just knowing I will have to account for my choices often makes me make much better choices than I was before. Never in my life would I have thought I would be so grateful for this kind of accountability, but it has certainly brought about the much needed changes.

What I can’t get over is Miss Jen’s true commitment and care for me. I have had some major life drama happen just before sessions with Miss Jen, and she takes the time to listen and talks me through things, offering me her counsel and wisdom. And yet, it doesn’t take away from or negate the spanking portion of any session, as much as I wish it did. She is still gonna hold be accountable for the decisions and choices I made that month regardless of what happened in my life. She is a remarkable life coach, disciplinarian and I would even say, friend.

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Francine 2019

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My experience with Jennifer was exactly as advertised. She really cares about her clients.  She is very easy to talk to and offered me a perspective that I can honestly say I did not expect. She really is great at being a life coach/disciplinarian..  If you are nervous about meeting her, do not be.  She is very caring and  great at what she does. For me it felt like I was talking to a friend and someone who knew me and my situation. She has a very strong hand J.  If you are on the fence about meeting her, trust me you will not regret it. I can’t wait to see her again and continue working on bettering myself.

J Denver 2018

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A little more than a week ago I had my first session with Jennifer, and in retrospect I’m so very glad that I did. Like some of you, I didn’t have much experience with spanking but have come to realize the need for some discipline/accountability at this stage in life. And I’m not going to pretend that I just jumped right in without any hesitation --- In fact, I was so nervous and anxious (because I was almost late) before meeting Jennifer for the first time that I literally went into the wrong hotel right next to the one she stayed in, and called her back and said nobody answered the door while she really couldn’t see anyone in the hallway…(no, I didn’t wear an invisibility cloak).

But it is true when people say Jennifer’s especially warm and compassionate and that your fear of meeting a stranger would dissipate the moment you see her. I personally think this is in part due to her naturally welcoming and energetic personality and her genuine wish to help and guide people. However, I would also give credit to her thoughtfully designed application. I could tell that she didn’t make it so long just to be mean, and there’s a reason why it involves so many questions. Before she approves anyone, she must have taken the time to genuinely learn about the applicant as a person and made sure she was willing and able to help. Thus, it becomes so much more likely that the two of you would get along with each other right away and eventually get the most out of the session.

That said, Jennifer would not have been a great disciplinarian if she’s only there to make one “feel good”. I think what makes her truly remarkable is that she knows acutely when to offer a kind word and when to be harsh without accepting any excuses. After pleasantries we actually talked for a long time about my issues. While she was understanding of the challenge I was facing, she made it clear that I wasn’t doing my best and, to my surprise, keenly pointed out the psychology behind it. Then came the time for the actual spanking. She turned on the music, positioned me over her lap, and started to spank with just her bare hand. She gradually built up the intensity, and it soon became punishing enough that the spatula, brush, and other small implements she later used on me actually all just felt like her hand! I started wiggling and at one point I reached my hand back, but she grabbed my wrist immediately and told me “no” in a very stern voice as she continued her job. At that moment I knew there was no escape. During the second half of the session she proceeded to a belt and an evil-looking stick while I lay on the bed. The belt was still bearable, but that stick almost made my eyes pop out and it became impossible for me to stay still or hold tears back anymore. Whining and pleading, however, made no difference whatsoever. She made sure I was getting a big enough warning before calling it an end. The end result? My sudden reluctance to find seats on the subway, and clear goals and rules to move forward with.

In retrospect, it strikes me that Jennifer clearly understands both the biology and the psychology of a truly effective, well-intended discipline, making me feel vulnerable, scared, but also secure and cared for during the entire spanking. She was right when she said that it was going to hurt but would never get to the point of being unsafe. She also tactfully added a little corner time and seized those moments between strokes to quiz me on what I had learnt and what would happen if I screw up in the future. This way, she made sure that I was also mentally “getting” the punishment instead of being consumed by pain only. And when the spanking was over, she kindly took the extra time to calm me down and patiently explained why she had to do it the way she did--- there was nothing unjust about it. She answered all my questions and I didn’t realize until I left that our session totally ran overtime.

In short, I hope my experience could attest to Jennifer’s incredible talents and skills and the fact that she CARES. She cares about her profession very seriously. She cares about the people that she sees. And she actually cares about their needs and goals, going out of her way to provide the extra push in a stern but loving way. This is why I am genuinely grateful that our paths have crossed and I’m absolutely willing to see her again.

Amy

NYC 2018

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It has been several days since my first meeting with Miss Jennifer and I am still struggling to find the right words to describe the positive effect it has produced, all I can say is “Wow.”  I, like many did not find her website by accident.  I have not been able to fully understand why, since childhood, I have devoted so much thought to spanking. I was only spanked once as a child and the experience was not something remarkable. Maybe it was stories from my childhood friends sharing their experiences of being spanked and how I witnessed students receiving the paddle in junior high school, I just don’t know. Nevertheless, my thoughts continued into adulthood which has become frustrating at times. It’s like my brain needs an answer but my adult logic considers these thoughts silly. Why would a rational adult desire a spanking? So here comes the challenge, do I find an answer to my question through the pursuit of an actual spanking or do I continue to struggle with the thoughts and accept that I will never truly know. 

After much consideration and internal debate I made the choice to reach out to Miss Jennifer and complete her detailed application.  I can say without question this was the right choice. Completing the application was anxiety provoking as I was sharing personal things that I thought I would never tell anyone.  Here was my first opportunity to openly express my thoughts and feelings to somebody who I hoped would understand and not be judgemental, what a relief.   When I received her email response I felt even better.  Finally my feelings were validated and I was closer to finding the answer that I had been searching for. Miss Jennifer’s email reflected her kindness, professionalism, and true desire to help me find solution. Her follow up was exceptional along with the quick scheduling of a pre-session phone call.  Despite our positive interaction through email I was nervous about the phone call.  All of my anxiety disappeared quickly as Miss Jen was kind, compassionate, and knowledgeable and helped me to feel at ease. Throughout the phone call I found Miss Jennifer to be direct, assertive, and not easily persuaded which confirmed to me the spanking she promised would be provided. 

The day finally came for me to meet with Miss Jennifer and I can honestly say the experience exceeded anything I could have imagined.   She provided an environment that was discreet, safe, and professional. Our conversation was therapeutic as it provided an opportunity for me to openly speak about my interest in spanking. As we shared thoughts I knew the spanking I’ve thought about was about to happen.  Miss Jennifer is intelligent, emotionally mature and attractive all of which helped me to feel comfortable, however my feelings went back and forth from anxiety to relief as I was still unsure how I was going to handle the spanking when it came.

My emotions were on a rollercoaster from the first spank to the final one and what I experienced is difficult to describe.  The pain was intense and my feelings fluctuated from one extreme to another. There were times when I felt I couldn’t take anymore and wanted to resist and then I felt a calm and passive acceptance of each stroke knowing I was to accept whatever she decided.  Miss Jen delivered the spanking with incredible skill and intuitively knew what I needed and how much I could handle.  By the time she was finished I found myself in a place of emotional peace that I had not previously experience. As I put my thoughts together I found the answer I was looking for. 

For the next few days I still felt the physical sensations that come with a very real spanking but I what noticed most was the emotional calmness that came with it. It was liberating to experience a real spanking so that I could put my thoughts to rest.  I am extremely grateful to have met Miss Jennifer. As I write this I am both nervous and excited as I look forward to my next meeting with her. The therapeutic spanking, coaching and support I had been looking for is now reality.

JP

Los Angeles 2018

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"Writing this at the heels of my 2nd session with Ms. Jennifer and all I can say is “wow.” As is evidenced in the plethora of positive testimonials, this woman knows exactly what she is doing. Having gone twice, I’m comfortable saying that I’ll definitely be a regular from here on forward. Something that struck me (no pun intended) during my sessions was her particular attention to the aesthetics of the spanking: From the rhythmic syncopation of each smack to match the music she has playing, to the surface area coloration of your backside at the end of the spanking – it’s apparent that she considers this an art. And like all great artists, she possesses quite the mastery of her craft. It’s relieving in a session to feel like the person spanking you knows your limits better than you do. Spanking aside, Ms. Jennifer is an all around catch. Incredibly easy to talk to, classically beautiful (I mean wow, she’s gorgeous), well-traveled, and compassionate. I could easily listen to her stories for hours without losing interest. I had such a good time chatting with her both times that I would completely forget I was there to get spanked – which she made sure to playfully remind me of at just the appropriate moment. She’s the kind of person you want to impress. I have to confess at the end of my sessions when she told me “I did a good job” and that “I took it well,” I felt really proud, as embarrassing as it is to admit. For anyone nervously tiptoeing around whether or not to go through with requesting a session, as I was – trust me when I say it’s worth it. You’re in great hands, firm hands – mind you, but great. Thank you Ms. Jennifer!"

NOVA 2018

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Testimonial from a Korean

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I know many of you read and write in English and I can certainly do so. But, I'd like to take this opportunity to let other Korean know about Jennifer's session because Korean is much easier for me, Jennifer is Korean so Korean people may feel more comfortable with her, and most importantly, I understand what Korean people care about and worry about.

오랜시간동안 스스로를 스팽키라고 생각을 해왔지만, 스팽키라는 성향이 다른 사람에게 알려져서는 안되는 비밀스러운 것이었기 때문에 (특히 한국사회에서는 더 그렇다는 거에 많이들 동의하실거라 생각해요), 스팽킹을 실제 행동으로 옮기는 결정을 하는데까지는 정말 오랜 시간이 걸렸어요. 미국에 살면서 한국에서보다 더 많은 기회를 가질수도 있었겠지만, 믿을만한 사람을 찾는다는게 말처럼 쉽지가 않았고, 미국의 문화를 완전히 이해하지 못한 상태에서는 더더군다나 어려웠었어요. 그렇지만 스팽킹을 해보고 싶다는 생각은 늘 있어왔고, 그렇게 웹서핑을 하다가 제니퍼를 알게됐어요.

제니퍼의 홈페이지를 차근차근 보시면 아시겠지만, 제가 가장 걱정해왔던 안전의 문제(비밀보장, 신체적 안전 등등)에 대해 제니퍼도 매우 신경을 쓰고 있다는 것을 알게되었고, 매우 디테일한 부분까지 신경을 쓴다는 것을 알고 난 뒤에는 제니퍼는 믿을만하다는 생각이 들어 컨택을 하게 되었어요.

첫 전화통화에서, 제니퍼는 마치 몇번 본적이 있는 사람처럼 친근하게 대화를 이끌어줬어요. 제가 한국말을 써도 되는지를 묻자, 한국말 이해할 수 있다면서 쓰고 싶으면 쓰라고.. 여기에서 얼마나 마음이 놓였는지 몰라요 ㅎㅎ 적어도 언어의 차이에서 오는 어려움을 조금은 줄일 수 있었으니까요. 제니퍼는 제가 뭘 원하는지를 관심있게 물어왔고, 스팽키로써 그저 스팽킹을 해보고 싶다는 말을 전적으로 받아들여줬어요. 경험이 많은 사람답게 제 상황을 이해해줬고, 그에 맞는 세션을 하겠다고 해줬구요.

제니퍼를 만나던 날, 얼굴도 모르는 낯선 사람을 만나는거라 조금 두려웠었는데, 호텔방문을 열고 들어가는 순간 걱정은 금새 잊었어요. 친구 만나듯이 편하게 맞아줬거든요. 세션 전 짧은 대화를 하면서 제니퍼는 절 편안하게 해줬고, 혹시 안 아프게 때리는거 아니야.. 하는 의구심이 들 정도로 좋은 사람이었어요. 그러나, 시작과 동시에, 스팽킹은 정말 아픈거구나를 바로 알 수 있었어요. 핸드스팽이었는데도 불구하고, 전 멍이 들었거든요 ㅠ. 조금의 틈도 없이 아주 프로페셔널하게 사정없이 때리는데, 정말 버둥거리는 것 이외에 할 수 있는 건 없었어요. 핸드, 헤어브러쉬, 스페츌러, 케인, 패들 등등 다양한 도구로 맞았는데, 정말 엉덩이와 허벅지가 없어지는 줄 알았어요 ㅠ 중간에 너무 아파서 엉덩이 한번만 만지면 안되냐고 물었다가, 그딴건 생각도 하지말라고 혼나고 ㅠ 엄청 맞은것 같아서 중간에 시계를 한번 봤는데, 10분밖에 지나지 않아서 좌절하고 ㅠ 더 맞을 곳이 없는 것 같은데도 제니퍼는 귀신같이 잘 찾아서 때리더라구요 ㅠ 그렇게 제대로 스팽킹을 경험하고, 제 엉덩이는 완전 멍이 들고 이틀정도 앉기도 쉽지 않은 상태가 되었었죠. 제니퍼말로는 처음 스팽킹을 하면 멍이 쉽게 잘 든다고 하더라구요. 제가 워낙 멍이 잘드는 피부이기도 하구요. 제니퍼와의 세션을 통해서, 전 상상속의 스팽킹을 제대로 경험해볼 수 있었고, 제가 정말 스팽키구나 하는 것도 확인할 수 있었어요. 세션이 끝나고 또 짧은 대화를 나눴고, 제 상태와 에프터케어 이런것들에 대해서도 이야기를 해줬구요. 며칠 뒤, 상태가 괜찮은지 이메일로 체크도 해줬구요.

Jennifer, the most impressive thing for me was that you really cared about every single "person". I really thank you for everything you did for the session I had with you. If I do it again, definitely I will find you and ask for your time and professionalism. You are awesome!

Ashley 2018

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Some people have a job. Others, have a business. The truly great ones, have a passion.

Miss Jennifer truly has a passion for helping others become the best version of themselves. I learned this first hand, when I met her in February, 2018. I am a happily married husband and father of four children. I’ve got a full time job, a part time business, and do a considerable amount of volunteer work.

With as busy as I am, I have a very hard time prioritizing things I need to do sometimes, whether they’re for my own personal development, or in accomplishing tasks that I’d just rather procrastinate on. I’ve tried to accomplish a few long term personal goals that are important to me, through multiple different means, only to find myself slacking on the hard work to accomplish them.

I knew I needed a mentor to help me, someone who would listen to what I really wanted out of life, help me review the plan to accomplish it, and – importantly – hold me accountable to those necessary steps I needed to take. I also knew from past experience with spanking, that working with a disciplinarian might really help me accomplish those goals.

So I started looking for a disciplinarian. And honestly, the search was difficult. There’s so much garbage and porn out there in the internet related to spanking, that I nearly gave up hope of finding someone. I didn’t want BDSM, I didn’t want a dominatrix, I didn’t want a prostitute who happened to play patty-cake with people’s butts. This had to be someone I could really look up to and respect as a person, a leader, and a mentor, before I could entrust myself to them.

I finally found Miss Jennifer’s website. I thought I had finally – maybe – found what I was looking for. Miss Jennifer consistently reinforced the fact that she spanks. She gives real spankings, without a safe word. And she only spanks. I read testimonial after testimonial, trying to see what I was really getting into. I listened to her podcast, trying to get a feeling for who she really was.

After quite a while of quietly investigating, I completed an application. Partially, at least, before I deleted it. Started again. And deleted it. It took me three times of attempting the application, before I finally had the courage to complete the application, and – gasp – actually sending it to Miss Jen as an email.

I truly thought I had gone crazy. Here I was, a married 44-year-old, asking someone I don’t even know, to give me a bare bottom spanking that’s going to hurt.

Miss Jennifer replied fairly quickly, and told me that she loved my application. She gave me instructions to set up a pre-session phone call. During our conversation, I learned more about her, and she seemed consistent with what I’ve seen on the testimonials. Still, I had my fears – what if she’s not who she says she is? What if she takes my phone number, searches to find who I am, and tries to blackmail me? What am I doing setting up an appointment to meet someone in a hotel room? Folks, I was extremely nervous that I was maybe making a horrible mistake.

I can tell you now, that Miss Jennifer is real, she is genuine, and she really does care about helping people. When we met on the day of the session, she greeted me warmly at the door. We sat down and talked for quite a while about family, about my life in general, and my goals. She paid close attention to my goals, and put together a few rules that she wanted me to start with. None of these were arbitrary, they were real, common sense things that I knew I should be doing, but hadn’t always been able to make myself do.

After setting the goals and rules in place that I was to work on, Miss Jennifer gave me an introductory spanking. All I’m going to say is that she is extremely skilled at what she does. This was definitely a memorable experience, one that was going to cause me some real reasons to remember to do what we had agreed upon. I left with a sore bottom, a plan, and plenty of motivation to be good.

I’m writing this testimonial actually on the heels of my second meeting with Miss Jennifer. During the month that followed, I tried very hard to follow the rules she had set in place. On some of the rules, I did extremely well. On others, there were things that, while I did better on them than ever before, I wasn’t perfect and had messed up on some things that I wasn’t supposed to do.

During this second session, we actually talked for a long time when I first arrived. I learned quite a bit more about her, and discovered things that honestly leave me in awe of who she is as a person. I truly discovered a sense of respect and admiration for her.

I also found out that she geniunely cares about whether I was able to meet my goals. She was extremely fair – while acknowledging that I had made some important improvements, I had also messed up too, and needed some discipline. She gave me a spanking that was considerably harder than the first time; several times I found myself clutching on to the bed for dear life.

I’m sitting here now after this session with a sore bottom, a renewed desire to be good and to accomplish what we’ve agreed that I would do.

I’m so grateful that Miss Jennifer took me on as a client. I feel so blessed to have her looking out for my best interests, and helping to hold me accountable to the things that will help me in my goals.

I strongly encourage anyone who has goals they want to reach, but need help with real accountability, to reach out to Miss Jennifer. She is loving, caring, intelligent, and funny, and she’s not afraid to absolutely roast your bottom when you need it, to help you become the person you’ve wanted to become.

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Atlanta 2018